父母是孩子最信任的人，是孩子最初的人生导师。孩子就是家长的一面镜子。平时的潜移默化的引导
，将影响孩子的一生。 也决定他今后的人生是否能正面处理各种问题。孩子的成长，就像一棵成长的小树，父母的引导，就相当于园艺师在修剪小树。
孩子社会阅历少，辨别不了真正的对错。如果遇到问题要告诉他怎样做是正确的，以后遇到类似的事他就知道该怎样处理了。如果孩子遇到困难，要帮助他自己去战胜困难，但作为家长最重要的要为孩子指明方向，不要总是怕孩子吃亏，而错误的引导孩子，久而久之会误导孩子的，最重要的是让孩子学会自立，小时候会自理，长大了就会自立。

Parents are children's most believable person ,as well as the first teachers of their lives.And the children are a mirror of parents in return.The ordinarily imperceptible guidance will influence the children's whole lives,and decide wether they can deal with all kinds of problems positively in their future lives.The children's growing is just like a small tree,correspondingly, the parents' guidance is pruning the small tree.Since the children have less social experience,they can't realise the truth or fault.So they should be told how to do is right when they meet the problems,thus they can handle similar ones by their own; they should be helped how to overcome the difficulties when they have them.But as the parents, the most important is to point out the direction for children,and don't worry that they'll suffer something and give them wrong guidence.As time goes by,they'll be it will be misled .First of all,teach them to learn self-independence.When they are young ,they can self-care;they can self-independence,when they grow up.